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Jimbob-wan - Student  |
ok heres an update. she dumped the other guy and now she is going out with another frickin guy. theres something wrong with that. i'm pissed. i don't wanna tell/ask her anything because i'm just not kind of guy. she thinks of me a a nice and caring person. and plus i am a very shy person. and i don't wanna make her think of me differently. so wat should i do? |
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Virtue - Jedi Council 
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Okay, I think this thread has served it's purpose. Although Jimbob was told not to make anymore threads of this kind, and he knowingly and willingly ignored this warning and went ahead and posted one anyways - I still don't believe anyone is justified in mocking or insulting him, even if you do have good points.  This thread (and all threads directly related) gets my official Abyss stamp. And Jimbob, this is your FINAL warning. We can either drop this subject, or drop your account, the choice is yours. Love and kisses. - Virtue.  _______________ Academy Architect |
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Ashyr - Student 
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I have one thing to say: lmao. _______________ Top ten reasons to get a better computer...|My fan |
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Refl3x - Student 
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Jimbob, all i have to say is that she doesnt want to go out with you. Otherwise she would have a while ago. So just let it go and try to stop ubsessing over it. _______________ "The only child ever to survive a roundhouse kick by Chuck Norris was Gary Coleman. He has not grown since." Whachoo talkin bout Willis? Go Sox baby. |
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Jeramia Adept - Student 
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let go, its the best thing you can do. to obtain love no one can realy find it, nor it doesnt really find you. you must assert the situation as a Jedi should, with mutual yet neutral intentions. and dude theres kids that read these posts, cussing isnt right, not to sound like a smart elick but its in the rules man. _______________ The Force is my ally, and a powerful ally it is. Padawan Brother to Darth Sirius |
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Plo Koon - Student 
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Now you're starting to seem like a stalker or something dude, chill. _______________ Free Tibet! Click this link,and learn Here too |
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Sauce - =^.^= 
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/bans jimbob |
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Monteeeeeee - Nugget 
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Quote: I agree, this is reaching the point of being pointless and sad. You ask for what we should have you do. You get an overwhelming response to one side, and then do the "but, but,...." Just move on. Seriously. But I doubt you will listen, you seem stubborn on this point. I have honestly read a lot of books and material on relationships, have quite some stories to tell if you dig around at the very opening days of my joining the academy (back before we had forums.) If you don't let this go, in time, the mere mention of her name will burn your heart. There are those I have chased with great regret, and possibly some detriment to my mental health. I chased one for 3 1/2 years. It was silly. There is no point. I had no fortune for having a community that will wisely guide me. You have such a community, heed this gift. If I had such a gift, I would have followed it. I will give you a valuable piece of advice. And you will not truly understand it, despite what you may think, not for a while. It took me 3 1/2 years to understand this: To put two separate tables together, and be stable, each table must be complete on their own. Each table must have four legs. To put anything less together may stand up to small forces, but will eventually face more than it can hold, and will crash down, damiging all that rest on them, and damaging the tables themselves. Two three-legged tables will not stand well. Nor will a complete table and an incomplete. You.....are not complete. Neither is she. She looks constantantly for someone that will complete her. One can only complete themselves. Took me 3 1/2 years. Then I understood. I spent about 1 year being comfortable with my singleness, and very complete of my own. Then it took me time to find another who is complete, of their own accord. And we are happily engaged now. So 4 1/2 years since that valuable piece of knowledge was imparted upon me, until I found what I was looking for. And I was ignorant, I was stupid, and I got burned. All because I failed to grasp that lesson. I know that much for certain. Really, very few your age are complete. Very few. But keep this lesson to heart, let those that are not complete of their own accord slip by you, and you will fare well. Let this go. Fix your own table first. Then wait for another complete table. Join together, and happiness and stability will be yours. Ah, I sound like an old wiseman. Anyone can take this lesson, not just you. I was just about to say the same thing hehe u wise old man _______________ If you add me to MSN, tell me who you are
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Ulic Belouve - Student 
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I agree, this is reaching the point of being pointless and sad. You ask for what we should have you do. You get an overwhelming response to one side, and then do the "but, but,...." Just move on. Seriously. But I doubt you will listen, you seem stubborn on this point. I have honestly read a lot of books and material on relationships, have quite some stories to tell if you dig around at the very opening days of my joining the academy (back before we had forums.) If you don't let this go, in time, the mere mention of her name will burn your heart. There are those I have chased with great regret, and possibly some detriment to my mental health. I chased one for 3 1/2 years. It was silly. There is no point. I had no fortune for having a community that will wisely guide me. You have such a community, heed this gift. If I had such a gift, I would have followed it. I will give you a valuable piece of advice. And you will not truly understand it, despite what you may think, not for a while. It took me 3 1/2 years to understand this: To put two separate tables together, and be stable, each table must be complete on their own. Each table must have four legs. To put anything less together may stand up to small forces, but will eventually face more than it can hold, and will crash down, damiging all that rest on them, and damaging the tables themselves. Two three-legged tables will not stand well. Nor will a complete table and an incomplete. You.....are not complete. Neither is she. She looks constantantly for someone that will complete her. One can only complete themselves. Took me 3 1/2 years. Then I understood. I spent about 1 year being comfortable with my singleness, and very complete of my own. Then it took me time to find another who is complete, of their own accord. And we are happily engaged now. So 4 1/2 years since that valuable piece of knowledge was imparted upon me, until I found what I was looking for. And I was ignorant, I was stupid, and I got burned. All because I failed to grasp that lesson. I know that much for certain. Really, very few your age are complete. Very few. But keep this lesson to heart, let those that are not complete of their own accord slip by you, and you will fare well. Let this go. Fix your own table first. Then wait for another complete table. Join together, and happiness and stability will be yours. Ah, I sound like an old wiseman. Anyone can take this lesson, not just you. _______________ Jedi do not fight for peace. That's only a slogan, and is as misleading as slogans always are. Jedi fight for civilization, because only civilization creates peace. |
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Masta - Jedi Council 
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I completly and utterly agree with Aron. _______________ Find out more about the Jedi Academy Aurochs here and more about Masta here! Married to Kain. |
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Karlin - Student 
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You may just have fellings for her that you just don't know about. I have known my wife since the 6th grade and we did not start dateing until July of 2003. Maybe you like her but you don't know how to say it, I had the same problem. You sound like a smart guy, you will know what to do. _______________ Only I will finish what I have begun. |
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Aron - Retired 
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this is not even worth banning or closing at this point. To be quite honest, I find it hilarious, and rather sad. There. I've had it with being subtle. This is just pathetic, you keep asking questions, but reply to all the answers with "but...but...!!" Grow up and move on. edit: Can't resist. Quote: Thats a long time to be friends with someone You do realize Jimbob is not a grownup here, right? 7th grade... this is not even ment as harsh as it may sound, but hey, wasn't that last year or so? This comment was edited by Aron on May 04 2005 03:41pm. |
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Jimbob-wan - Student 
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but we've been good friends ever since 7th grade |
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Moriarti - Student 
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well all I have to say now is move on _______________ Vampire boxing nord |
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Ash - Eats Babies 
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What should you do? Not a damn thing. It aint worth the trouble. Not to diss your love intrest but she sounds like the kind of girl who needs to try out a different guy every couple of months. Even if one day she did date you it would probably end real soon and most likely in a very messy way. So if you think you feel bad now just imagine how you will feel when she actually breaks up with you. So basically just move on. Figure out what kind of girl your looking for. Then go out and get your flirt on. Just remember to be yourself. Eventually someone will come along. Even if you get all bitter and become a cynical jackass someone is bound to come along and enjoy that personality. Hell it happened to me. And if all this sounds cliche then just wait. You'll find out just how generic life can get. _______________ "We keep odd hours...." ----------------------- They Live, We Sleep |
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thewind - Student |
Unfortunately, in life there are a lot of times when you have to accept the immutable and endure the difficulties that are thrust upon you. The key to life is minimize damage caused by the immutable, but boldly seize opportunities when present. I am afraid in this case, you must accept that this particular person is not a person whom you can be with happily. I think, on some level, you already feel a sense of pain associated with your frustrations. She has lead you on, complimenting you, yet refusing to give you commitment of any nature. In time, you will discover that this is characteristic of girls who are manipulative. I understand that right now, you can't believe that. And heck, even if it was true that she was taking advantage of you, you probabaly wouldn't even mind. You probably enyoj her compliments of your caring and understanding nature much more than the slight pain you may be feeling for giving you mixed signals. But believe me, it won't last. A human's energies and efforts are limited, and nothing frustrates or pains a person more than unrewarded efforts, and realization that "it was all for a lie? for nothing?" You should let it go, and endure the dissapointment that comes with this choice. In life, there are things which you are not meant to have, and there are things which you must go for. Decide wisely. As I said, a person's energy and efforts are limited. Unrealized goals may hurt. I know this is not what you wanted to hear. Also perhaps my answer sounds like cliche. Unfortunately much of the old wisdom is true or people wouldn't be repeating them into cliches. You are a person perhaps more mature than your age. You seek someone you care about and you want that affection returned. It will come, you are going to have to trust in that till it comes. Best of the luck to you. This comment was edited by thewind on May 04 2005 09:15am. |
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